A Prayer For Owen Meany ch. 5

In A Prayer For Owen Meany chapter five, I thought that it was not right when Owen Ordered his parents around. Durring the pagent, when he noticed his parents were in the audience he stood up and ordered them to leave the catholic church immediately. They got up and everyone was staring at them as the left the church. Owen should of thought of how that could have embarrassed his parents and made them feel. Also, when the pagent was over he was ordering them to get in the car and drive now. Owen is acting rude to his parents and acting like he is in charge of them when it should be the other way around.